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| Tributes to Glenn Rivera, 1958 - 2005 | |||||||||
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Glenn Rivera, a member of Film
Forum’s theater staff for six years, was well-known for his cheerful
demeanor and gregarious personality. He passed away on October 13 at
age 47, after a courageous battle with cancer. In Glenn’s case courageous is
no cliché. He chose not to discuss his illness, complain or solicit
sympathy. In a world of much gratuitous brutality, he was a generous
soul who engaged in random acts of kindness. We are better people for
having known him. |
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Funny how with a person of character, even the shortest
conversations are memorable. |
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For some reason, people don’t remember my face. Or so it often seems. But after a few times when I arrived ridiculously early for a popular movie at the Film Forum, and like many others, fell into conversation with Glenn while at his post, he never failed to recognize me on other occasions and would zip over to say hello. We discovered we went to the same college, though different schools, and of course had a few rousing conversations about movies. I didn't know Glenn well, but I felt as if I did. That power to radiate his sincerity was one of his great gifts and I believe he knew it about himself. I have been meaning to ask someone at the front desk where he has been lately. I feel a little sheepish that I had not yet asked after him now that I read the sad and surprising news. Film Forum is still my favorite place in New York. But I will miss Glenn. He was a gem. – Vanessa Jalet |
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Glenn invited me and my husband Richard
to go to a screening of Showgirls about a year ago. I was uninitiated,
as never having seen the film before. I thought it was simply
a bad movie. I was skeptical and not too thrilled with the idea. |
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I never knew Glenn by name, but shmoozed with him many times
in the FF
lobby. Reading these heartfelt letters reminds me that FF truly is a
community, not just a movie theater -- and one of the essential reasons
we live in a city like New York. My condolences on your loss.
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Like Rob, Glenn was
also one of the first people I met when I spent the summer of 2003 in
the city. On my first day of work at the Film Forum, I didn’t know what
to make of the lively, opinionated guy in the baseball cap, but quickly
fell under Glenn’s spell. His directness was a great part of his charm,
and he was as sassy as the screen divas that he loved. One of his favorite
movies was Rosemary’s Baby, and when I made him a staff
badge using a picture from the film he started wearing it all the time,
and as the new girl, nothing could have made me feel more welcome. Glenn
also loved the theatre almost as much as he loved film, and it seemed
like he had seen the original production of almost every show worth seeing
in the last thirty-five years. He had just as many opinions on plays
as he did on films, and any conversation with him was marked by his intelligence,
humor and fierce love of the arts and the city. I only saw him once more
after I left that fall, and I’ll always regret that I didn’t see him
again after I moved back this past September. He was a true New York
character. | |
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Glenn was my college roommate at Cornell. We shared an apartment together during our junior year, at the height of the ‘disco era’ of all things. He was always fun to have around, and we all drove each other crazy that year (but in a good way, of course). In later years, we both ended up living in the Slope, where I would
run into him, and later on I often saw at F. Forum. But most often,
I’d see him at the Chelsea Classic Thursday night events
at the Clearview. He would tend to come in late, toting a bag of cookies,
and once went up front to relate to hostess Hedda Lettuce his encounter
w/ a not-very nice Diana Ross when he was a hotel concierge. Hedda finally
had to nearly wrest the mike away from him as he chatted on, in
Glenn-like fashion! She also asked him for some of his cookies,
and playfully chided him for sneaking them in. (He shared of course...).
Another time , again arriving late, he was, for some reason, wearing
a party hat (the cone- cardboard type...) Hedda stopped her pre-show
to implore for a seat for “the man in the party hat” (it was Valley
of the Dolls and sold out, or nearly so...one of Glenn’s, and mine, very
favorites). His joie de vivre will be missed, and his departure leaves
this world a less mirthful and playful place. I’m glad he found
a home at Film Forum, where he could revel in two things I always knew
he loved the most -- movies and people. Thanks for listening... |
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Glenn and I met in the Bronx when we were both fifth-grade students at St. John Vianney. At the time “Laugh-In” was the big show. We remained friends. The last time I saw him in person was in the year 1999 when he visited me here in Phoenix. We took a trip to the Grand Canyon and it was his first time. Glenn and I kept in touch over the phone through the years at least every few weeks. He never let any pain or sickness break his spirit. I would call to cheer him up and it was always Glenn who lifted my spirits. I used to tell him to conserve his strength and quit working at the Film Forum. But he loved his job and the people he worked with and met there. I remember him telling me about meeting Fay Wray. Glenn was preceded in death by his mother Rosalie. She loved the movies too. Personally, I’m devastated by his death. I console myself with the thought that my good friend is free of pain now. I told his Dad I figure he and Rosalie are in Heaven now watching movies eating all the free popcorn they want and not worrying about calories anymore. I miss him. I still find myself getting ready to call him. I spoke to him 3 weeks before he died. I wish I had gotten to talk with him one more time to let him know how much a part of me he was. I’m glad the nice folks at the Film Forum gave him such pleasure. He
loved that job and working hard. |
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I met Glenn after my
mother died in December 2001. My husband and I weren’t getting
along and I went to the Film Forum frequently to take my mind off of
my troubles. I always sat in the front row by myself. Glenn
noticed and befriended me with love and generosity. When I was feeling
down, he would bring me a bag of popcorn and a hug to cheer me up. Over
the months and years, we grew close. I was one of the last people to
talk to Glenn before he passed away. I spoke to him the night before
he passed. He told me abruptly that he had to go and asked me to take
care of myself. In the morning, I called his father to see how he was,
but he was gone. I miss him deeply and will always love him. |
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I was devastated to
hear of Glen’s death. He was a darling person, always warm, friendly
and affectionate. I will miss his smiles and hugs more than I can say. |
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I am very sad to hear
of his passing. I met him during the Robert Altman retrospective that
the FF had at the end of 2002. Being a huge Bud Cort fan, we chatted
about Bud’s film work, and Glenn teased me about some of Bud’s
movies that the FF showed over the years. I was there to see “Brewster
McCloud” on that Saturday. I sat through 4 screenings, and for
doing so, Glenn, before the 4th screening, treated me to a box of popcorn
and a medium coke. That was the nicest experience I had at the movies
in a long time. |
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Glenn was such a great
person and cinephile. His knowledge was incredible and he had a great
way of making you feel at home. He will truly be missed. |
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It was a December night at the Kips Bay theater where I had been in conversation with a man that was not only enthusiastic about movies but a pleasure to talk to. His name was Glenn and we were on line for a free screening of the film Chinatown. I told him my positive reaction to Eyes Wide Shut and from that point on, he said “you’re a friend” and on and off I would bump into him at the Film Forum while he was ushering for a chat or 2. It was also a pleasure to treat him to a bagel down the street when he had looked hungry for something on the job. He accepted it graciously and had been a great recommender of the cinema. He was the first person to open my eyes to the film Heaven’s Gate (which has since become a favorite and got to savor at FF on the big screen) and recommended a bunch of others and was always a welcome introduction into entering one of the best movie houses in NYC. The last time we had spoke was in 2001 a few weeks after 9/11 when The French Connection made it’s way to FF on a chilly September day. I had introduced him to my girlfriend and we chatted much more. We left with great smiles as every other time before and I believe all in Heaven will become film appreciators right away after a conversation with Glenn. He was a great reason to come to the Film Forum for his conversation on-line or away from the line made a great teaser for the films me and my friends were about to see better than any newsreel or cartoon preceding a feature. Glenn, wherever you are up there, we miss you!!! |
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Glenn was not
only a valued and loyal employee, but also a friend for many staff
members and customers. His engaging personality was vivid and stimulating.
Many times, while at work, I witnessed its positive effect on those
he came into contact with. He was a lively, spirited individual and
a joy to work with. The staff and I have many fond memories of him
and will miss him in the days to come. |
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An endless font of film
exuberance—a true cinema fan, a good friend, and a devoted employee.
See ya on the big screen in the sky, bud. |
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On the afternoon of
my first day in New York I bought a ticket for a Barbara Stanwyck double
feature at the Film Forum. Walking into the theatre during the previews,
an usher helped me to my seat with a flashlight. After the movie we had
a cigarette together outside on the sidewalk; his name was Glenn Rivera
and he was the first person I met in New York. I like him from the first,
but as we worked together I came to love him as a friend, eccentricities
and all. I miss him dearly. |
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FF concessions staff
are all gems to my mind, but Glenn was a particular shiner. You knew
him, believe me, even if you don’t think you did. He probably chatted
you up about something or other. With me it was pets (his cat, my dog),
and, believe it or not, fundraising (my charge at FF). Whenever we had
a new brochure or promotional piece, Glenn was quick to comment and encourage.
He actually inquired on a regular basis how much a particular appeal
was yielding in donations, and asked for extra copies to give to friends.
He was also always first in line to staff members events, the Spring
Brunch was his favorite. I didn’t know Glenn that well, but when
he was here at FF, he was “all here,” which was a gift to
all of us. |
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This is a painful loss.
Glenn was not only one of the most enthusiastic and winsome members of
our terrific lobby staff, he was a generous, warm-hearted person whose
interests in film, theater, music and politics were palpable. We had
countless discussions over films we’ve played, films we chose not
to play or bring back*, and whatever political scandal happened
to be in the news that day. I remember his excitement over having the
opportunity to meet Jules Dassin, John Schlesinger, Donald Sutherland,
and many others. We will all miss him deeply. *Glenn’s most frequent recommendation was MYRA BRECKINRIDGE, which he felt had substantial camp appeal -- one look at the cast list and I suspect he may have been right! |
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Glenn, you were one
of the nicest guy I’ve ever met. I’ll never forget hanging
out front of Film Forum talking about this movie or that movie, and I
loved how you always had an opinion and information about a film. I will
never forget how cool you were, like when you took my wife & I out
to see SHOWGIRLS for the first time. We had a blast & will always
remember that evening. You may have left us, but you will never be forgotten. |
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Should you wish to share an anecdote about Glenn or submit your own tribute to be included, please e-mail it to: newsletter@filmforum.org. Thank you. |
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